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Gallery: Australia Says “I Do”

We know we’re a little late to this party, but here are some of our favorite Australian LBTQ+ weddings in celebration of the historic “yes” vote for marriage equality! We are so happy for all our Aussie brides & brooms—and hope this good news provides a boost to all those fighting around the world for justice for queer folks!

Emma & Cara:

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Tracy & Kristy:tracy kristy

Cassie & Milena:

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Popping the Question: Walking Down the Aisle

We’re back with another installment in Popping the Question, our series where we tackle questions unique to wedding planning as a queer couple.

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Photo courtesy of Jason Worrell Photography

Earlier this fall, we asked you about walking down the aisle. How do we, as queer couples approach this tradition? What unique and personal twists can we bring to this aspect of the wedding ceremony? Today, we’re featuring some of your answers! 

From Leah:

My wife and I danced our way down the aisle! Our music was from Pirates of the Caribbean (we’re Disney freaks, among other things we’re freaks about) so it worked out! The way our venue was set up, we had a short distance, and it intertwined with our guests. Pretty awesome to see my wife to be (extrovert) rock her way up to our ceremony space while I (introvert) got to kiss and hug all our guests on the route! Our Honor Party of Awesomeness walked into Hedwig’s Theme from Harry Potter (I am a Potterhead). One of the best aspects was that all of our music was played by an instrumental trio that included flute (my aunt), a cello, and a violin. We loved it!

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Photo courtesy of Karen Leah Photography. (See more from Leah and Lisa’s beautiful, colorful wedding here!) 

From Deborah:

In the first picture, you see my adult son “walking me down the aisle” (there was no aisle). As I said in the write-up to our wedding, “He didn’t want to give me away because it’s a patriarchal tradition, but I said to view it as being a psychopomp, and he agreed he could get behind that.”

My father passed away between the engagement and the wedding, but I wouldn’t have wanted him to walk me anyway. We didn’t have a good relationship, and my son was much more intimately involved with Melissa & I as a couple. Walking with Arthur felt more “us.”

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Photo courtesey of MPR Studio. (You can see more from Deborah and Melissa’s wedding here!) 

From Mel and Rachel:

Rachel and I (Mel) just got married June 3, 2017. We decided to forego a wedding party, and we’re both only children whose parents mean the world to us. The walk down the aisle began with our friend Topher, who walked our Yorkie mix Judy to the birch altar we bought on Etsy. (Judy wore a white dress too!) Then Rachel decided she wanted to go down the aisle before me, which worked out well because I wanted to go last! She walked in with a parent on each arm, and then I did the same. I wouldn’t change a thing!

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Thanks to everyone who responded! Stay tuned for our next Popping the Question soon! 

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Wedding: Jenna & RJ

From Jessica, Jenna & RJ’s photographer: Two brides, Jenna and RJ, got hitched at this beautiful family backyard wedding.

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Event Credits

Florist: Rebecca's Flower Shoppe, Fairhaven, WALocation: Blaine, WashingtonPhotography: Jessica Drake Photography // http://www.jessicadrakephotography.com/
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Meet the Team: Adriana

Another Friday, another new team member to introduce!

Today, we’re pumped to present Adriana, A Bicycle Built for Two‘s new Outreach Editor! In this role, she connects with the ABBFT community to bring you insight into the LBTQ wedding world. Just this week, we featured her work in our latest Brides Revisited interview with Shoshana and Meredith. We can’t wait to read more awesomeness from Adriana (I, for one, am hoping to get ahold of some of these vegetarian recipe haikus…)!

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Tell us a little bit about yourself!

I’m just a lesbo living in London who enjoys alliteration. I’m a fond lover of cats—really out of the norm for lesbians, I know. In between my love of cats and avoiding London on a Saturday afternoon, I teach the youth of tomorrow.

How did you find A Bicycle Built for Two?

One of the Sundays where you’re curled up on the couch *for a quick 10 minute sesh* and lo and behold, 10 hours later I was scrolling through ABBFT and weeping a tiny bit at how beautiful all these wonderful stories of love were.

What do you love about the site?

That it provides a space for queer women to seek out ideas for weddings, to find stories about love between people, and all the pictures of cake.

What was/is one must-have for your wedding?

Very few people there. Only the people I love. Which are my cats.

What do you do for fun?

Google vegetarian Buzzfeed recipes and write haikus about vegetarian recipes.

Anything else you’d like to add?

I feel really lucky to be able to be part of a team that wants to create such an amazing site for queer women to form a network and community that promotes, honors, and celebrates love in all its wonderful and complex forms.

Thanks to Adriana for sharing her time and her talents with A Bicycle Built for Two! Give her a warm welcome on in the comments.
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Meet the Team: Casey

Another Friday, another new team member to introduce!

We’re celebrating FriYAY by introducing you to Casey, our new Content Editor at A Bicycle Built for Two. You can see some of her awesome work in our Popping the Question: Love Songs post from this week, but be sure to stay tuned for more from this DIY & cat-loving team member!

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Tell us a little bit about yourself!

I’m Casey! I’m a 26 year old living in Boston, originally from California. I work in non-profit fundraising as a development officer, and I use she/her pronouns.

How did you find A Bicycle Built for Two?

I found ABBFT during finals one year in college. I wasn’t out yet and it was incredible and so reassuring to see couples that looked like me falling in love and getting married. It gave me hope.

What do you love about the site?

Everything! I love seeing two people so in love and all the intricate details that go into decorating for everyone’s special days.

Are you married/unmarried/planning a wedding/etc.?

I am in a long term relationship. I think she’s pretty much the best person in the world so I would be into planning a wedding with her someday.
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What was/is one must-have for your wedding?

I really love anything DIY and hope to make as many things by hand for our wedding as possible.

What do you do for fun?

I love anything having to do with cooking or baking. My partner and I always try to go on little mini adventures around New England to explore new places. I also love my cats and love talking about them.

Ah, so you have pets! Tell us more.

My partner and I have three cats. We adopted a kitty off the street about a year and a half ago and she turned out to be halfway through a pregnancy, so when the kittens came we kept two and they make up an odd adorable little family.

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What’s your favorite kind of sandwich?

Turkey club hands down forever and ever.

Anything else you’d like to add?

If you like pictures of cats and baked goods, or want to connect, come find me over on Instagram @caseyshizuye!
Thanks to Casey for sharing her time and her talents with A Bicycle Built for Two! Give her a warm welcome on in the comments—and look out for our final “Meet the Team” post this time next week.
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Popping the Question: Love Songs

We’re back with another installment in Popping the Question, our series where we tackle questions unique to wedding-planning as a queer couple.

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This time, we’re focused on the challenge of picking a first dance song when a lot of songs don’t always feel like they apply to we queer humans the way they do to others.

From Deborah:

Our first dance was “This Must Be the Place (Naive Melody)” by the Talking Heads. For Melissa, the lyric that nailed it was “Home, is where I want to be/But I guess I’m already there”.

Read more about Deborah & Melissa in their Brides Revisited post

From Leah:

My wife and I signed our first dance in ASL. Well, we danced a little when there was only music. We signed “Give Me Your Forever” by Ben Harper. It was a surprise to everyone, as we didn’t tell a single soul what we were planning. It was pretty awesome to see and hear all of the reactions from our guests when we broke apart and started signing to each other.

We also thought we’d give few answers from the team here at A Bicycle Built for Two:

From Morgan:

“Love Me Like You Do” by Elle Goulding – This is good song to dance to and get the party started!

“Take Your Time”by Sam Hunt – I love this song about getting to know someone more and spending time together.

“For My Love” by Bethany Dillon – This one’s an older song—and technically off a Christian/gospel album—but it’s a great love song for everyone nonetheless.

jen and bethPhoto courtesy of Rachel Bayne Photography. (See more from Jen and Beth’s wedding here!)

From Adriana:

“Doo Wop” by Lauryn Hill -The song informed for the first year of my relationship with my girlfriend. We’d lay in various London parks, the sun shining down on us rapping (badly) to the song.

Meanwhile, Maggie and Ashley are hoping that Brandi Carlile miraculously comes out with a few more wedding appropriate songs before they tie the knot! Fingers crossed!

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A few other great ideas from our commenters (thanks, Deborah & Erica!)

“Heavenly Day” by Patty Griffin

“Wherever is Your Heart” by Brandi Carlile

“Love is the Seventh Wave,” as covered by The Duhks (and thus sung by a woman!)

“Here, There, and Everywhere” by The Beatles

megan and lauraPhoto courtesy of Madeline Faye Photography. (See more from Megan and Lauren’s wedding here.) 

Thanks for all your responses! Keep an eye out for the next installment of Popping the Question, when we’ll talk about how you chose to walk down the aisle.

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Meet the Team: Erin

Another Friday, another new team member to introduce!

Today we’re excited to introduce Erin, one of our two new managing editors. Along with her partner, Sam (who was featured last week!), Erin has brought her insights and talents to A Bicycle Built for Two, working hard behind-the-scenes to make sure all of your LBTQ+ wedding and engagement beauty shines through each post.

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Tell us a little bit about yourself!

My name is Erin! I’m a 27 year old from the east coast recently transplanted to California.

How did you find A Bicycle Built for Two?

My partner, Sam, is a huge fan of the blog! Throughout our long distance relationship she shared ABBFT posts with me.

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What do you love about the site?

I really like the photography, and the wedding dress inspiration!

Are you married/unmarried/planning a wedding/etc.?

I’m in a long term relationship, marriage may be on the horizon.

What was/is one must-have for your wedding?

A Free People wedding dress and family.

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What do you do for fun?

Go to the beach, read, peruse Instagram, watch Netflix.

Do you have any pets?

A family cat named Alice and I miss her very much.

What’s your favorite kind of sandwich?

Grilled cheese with soup on the side!

Thanks to Erin for sharing her time and her talents with A Bicycle Built for Two! Give her a warm welcome on in the comments—and look out for another “Meet the Team” post this time next week. 

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